One Step at a Time: February 2011

well..i have read this status on facebook recently.."How come that guy never notice me when i was there for him.."haha..so i think i wanna share this with all of you guys out there..well for me a guy attention is not so important unless you are that desperate to have a partner..

my mom used to said that "boy actually love to work hard in getting something that day wish for..including girl" but not..after a long though..i felt that girl also need to work hard to get what we wish to have too..

so..today..i wanna share this few tips with all of u..it might be a good tips i guess..act with pride..but never sell it for free...:)

Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way, you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself.But don't be loud he is going to think your weird and not approachable! Being yourself is good but don't do something crazy to get his attention! You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation.
Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way, you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself.But don't be loud he is going to think your weird and not approachable! Being yourself is good but don't do something crazy to get his attention! You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation.
Try to become his friend. Get to know him better. Yes, you might like him, but first, become his friend. Start liking things that he likes, but don't get too much involved. He might become too crowded. First, try by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says something bad about what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't want to do that because he will like you better just try something different, but don't stop doing what you like to do, because he might like someone who does what they like; if he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while. Because variety might be the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other okay looking girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty is common, but a good outlook and great energy are very rare." Guys love when girls look them in the eyes.
Smile and make eye contact.If you don't smile,he won't notice you and if he does,he might just think you're boring and not worth talking to so you should always put on a great smile to attract his attention and you think you're not good at smiling,think of something to make you laugh,find something interesting on his body to like or you can try putting on a fake smile and then you will notice that a real,genuine smile will appear all of a sudden.You have to make yourself happy to be happy. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total wallflower, but if you're just reading a magazine, try and look cute and wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading. and take the conversation on from there.
Flirt. Do it as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting especially with other guys will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. Don't do too much, but not too little either. Sometimes you might look too girlie, popular, wanna-be etc. If he reacts and you don't think its real, he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, but let him know he can't. If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is 'all that'. For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego.
Start up conversations that have to do with if it's where you are or if he's talking to you. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or giggle nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you, no matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be yourself. Just be who you are, that's the #1 quality guys look for in a girl.
Hang out with him often but not too often ; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example, if you're at a football game, ask confidently but cutely, "Did I miss any action?". This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion, so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics) the whole game. Start slowly like a movie or party try not to make it so noticeable cause he might not be interested.
Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Tell him what you want him to do, etc.--just don't get too bossy.
Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.You know, guys hate girl who wear too much make up.They think it looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up with you(think your just a doll) and fall in love with a natural girl.
Don't be a slob. It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair,hasn't cleaned her ears(They always look in there) or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, just looking presentable is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
Just Talk To Him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him will get his attention, and if it doesn't then nothing will.
Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.
If you catch him sneaking glances at you, then he is probably interested and trying to keep you in his sight.

it seem quite a while i didn't post anything that is long as an essay..haha..well i've been so busy lately with my internship...working in TMTC is really a good experience as i get to learned a lot there..well that never stop my favorite activity..hehe..as usual..i'm so into Starbuck..i just don't know why..but it like i can't say no for Starbuck..hehehe :) yup2..so addicted to it...like hell yeah!!
so..last few weeks..i've been to Sunway Pyramid with someone..hihihi...and i was like crazy shopping still i get ache all over my body..:) but...what ever it is..it is full of satisfaction..i am so happy like 'super duper' happy! :)

"look at how excited i am??"

"hurray!! let chill at Starbuck :P"

"OMG..is this big damn thing gonna fall on me??"


"Satisfaction enjoying my drinks.."

in the same day..i did buy a new hand bags..:) yup..still like any other ordinary girl out there that loves to shops a lot :) <3...well i really had much fun..
at the same time..i really do wanna admit..that shopping is one of my hobby that i shall said suitable to make as a "soul therapy"..
and credit to my someone that had accompany me for the hold day..and bought me a lunch..movie..& tea's..
hahaha..thnx for this beautiful pic too..hahaha...i really enjoy being your camera object to snap..
hopefully we could go and chill again some other time..:)
but..maybe on some other place..hahaha..u know i love to walk aren't u..hehehe..

till then..thnx for reading :)